13 Things You Must Lose To Change Your Life For The Better
It’s so easy to identify what you need to do to change your life. It’s so hard to accept what you need to let go of, what weeds you need to uproot so the soil of your life is free and fertile again. People analogize time and energy and mental space to a lot of things, but you can think of them as a box. They are finite. As much as you want it to be different, there is only so much space. There is only so much you can do in a lifetime. You cannot fit everything in. It is our duty to carefully choose what we want to give our energy to. Most people externalize their locus of control, fearing that circumstances or other people’s actions will define their lives when in reality, it depends on the quality of their character. Not what happens, but how you respond. Not what is, but what you make of it. If you want to change your life––to become the person you know you want and need to be––you don’t only need to master, cultivate and perfect. You have to choose. You have to let go. You h
